A confused lady is asking why he is not calling and if he will ever call, please help...?

i have looked everywhere for possible opinions but i cant find them anywhere so i decided to do it here. i am a young female who met a guy at work. we started talking and he asked me out to hang out, so i thought i wudnt loose anything so why not go along because i didnt have friends.(had a crush on him n i guess he did too) so our date went well we started talking more and seeing eachother outside work. now this guy has a baby mama he lives with and he didnt tell me til about 2weeks we started talking(i didnt ask him) he just said he had something to tell me n told me jokingly but said it was true. he also asked if am willing to still try it with him cos i had personally told him i do not like the baby mama drama that tags along with men with children. i then said i was okay with it because everything was soo going on well, we went to bars, text, cald eachother all the time. so here comes the shocker, about 2mnths into our relationship his baby mama calls me with a private number and ask if am sleeping with his man. he mentioned mr x's name and b4 i was going to ask her anything she hanged up on me. b4 i go on, i agreed to still talk to him because if hes living with his baby mama and weve been talkn for 2months and no drama yet, i thought it was ok then (yes i know, soo naive). so this guy has never said anything bad about the baby mama, other than she toys him around nd talks to him anyhow and that hes only there for the kids, also he doesnt have his money right so he is scared to leave to be chrged with child support. after sayn all this, i felt bad for him cos innocent ppl do get trapped,so i told him i luv him very much n if he could come up with an agreement with the baby mama, i could help him pay the child support. he said its going to be very complicated if he leaves and i wouldnt understand it. so i leave it since the baby mama didnt call me again and me and mr x still hanged out, late night calls and name it.so as time went on, i slept with him and we even got closer. 2weeks after, baby mama calls me again and said she wants to speak to me woman to woman. i told mr x and it seemed he didnt want me calln her. so i didnt call her and there, she called me same day again. she asked me ??s like she understands me n mr x is havn a relationship n that we met online and have never seen eachother b4. so mr x textd me and said hes sori for me to hear this and that the only reason he said its an internet thing is because he would make a scene and even kick him out of the house and he wnt see his kids again. (i was confused) but i luvd this guy soo much, no1 has ever made me feel the way he does, honestly. moving ahead, ok so i told babay mama what she wanted to hear and she was like okay, just wanted to clarify we neva saw eachother and just online. she wasnt nasty, a very nice lady. i thought about this whole saga and i stopped talking to him for a week. he looked for me, calld me like crazy on my fon, texts, cryn and sayn he knows he has a lot to handle but he doesnt want to finsh handling it and then i wouldnt b there. i told him il always b there so he shd gradually let baby mama know it isnt working and we can start something. time goes by and we started again and, baby mama was out ofthe picture. til about a month again. he calls cussn me out that he has 2kids for this man and he lives in his home and he takes care of him, so if we have something then he will ship him to me so he pays for his mess. she called me all sorts of names. she found out because she was going thru his calls i guess. after he called, mr x called me and is like so uve bn 4wdn our calls to bm am like no, why would i do that?? hes like she just calld me and said if i dont come for my stuff she will throw them away and throw my kids out the window and jump out too. i felt very bad, so i was mad at mr x and told him not to call me again, he was very selfish, wasnt on my side and just about his family. i texted baby mama and asked if she wanted to talk and that i am sorry we could talk all this over and lay some things to rest cos quite frankly i beleiev in what goes around comes around and i coudnt just take a family man from a family like that. so baby mama text me and said sure i shd tell her when so we can all meet and have a 3some, then we will all be happy. i found that very offensive and i felt that wasnt the crowd, what i am looking for. meanwhile mr x kept calln n calln i guess he felt bad and realized he ***** have been that selfish, so i kept telln him dont call me ever again and he asked if he can call after he settles with all this. i still said no. everyuthing cools down, he calls me 2days after i pick up n hes like he needs to talk to sum1 hes soo lonely and baby mama left him. i know he is lying, he just wants me to feel bad cos he knows i feel bad easily. we were talking and i told him if she left, go and find her. then he asked is that what you want, i said yes and the phone cut and i havnt heard frm him for almos